Lies That Will Ruin Your Relationship

"I'm A Big Fan Of..."

"I'm a big fan of..." Don't do this. It's always a terrible idea. Don't lie about your interests, whether they're hobbies, bands, books, celebrities, career goals, or some other arbitrary aspect of human life. When you say you're a fan of something you don't like, you then create a lie you have to commit to. You've locked yourself into pretending you enjoy this thing you dislike or feel ambivalent about. Over time, that can lead to a gaping hole of resentment. If you don't share an interest with your partner, be upfront and tell them. But also let them know you appreciate their passion and want to support them in their endeavors. The same is true if your partner makes a meal you don't like; if you lie about liking it, what if they make that same meal at least once a week every week until you die? The things you have to live with because of these stupid lies are not worth it.

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