Tips On How To Help Your Child Develop A Positive Self-Esteem

Avoid Comparisons & Perfectionism

Nothing makes a child feel more terrible about themselves than hearing they are not worthy, valued, good enough, or that their sibling is superior in some way, shape, or form. By eliminating comparisons, you will be able to effectively increase your child’s self-esteem and minimize sibling rivalry. If anything, parents should be strengthening the bond between siblings, and equally praising each child for their strengths, rather than capitalizing on their weakness in comparison to their sibling. Also, parents should minimize the need for perfectionism or for having their child reach an obscenely high standard. By comforting your child and letting them know mistakes are okay and can happen, you can eliminate any unnecessary stress and anxiety the child may be experiencing in order to please you and receive praise.

Continue reading to find out what beliefs your child may have that are hurting their mental health.